I just had a conversation with our MFM about our first pregnancy who I absolutely adore and who has been with us for almost four years. I recommend prefacing the conversation by letting the doctor "off the hook" so to speak. Letting them know that they don't have to make whatever happened or decisions that were made ok or justify them... just explain them.
I hope you find peace reviewing your previous pregnancy and a positive plan for the future.
2008-Our Baby Girl, PTL born too early at 30w6d, Fought so hard... Forever Loved & Missed
2010- Lil' Bro, Pre-E at 29 weeks... Induced at 36w6d, Born 37w
2012- Lil' Sis, Super-imposed pre-e at 25 weeks, PTL & GD at 35 weeks, Evicted 36w