I totally feel you! On all angles. 1 - I cannot imagine going through what you did, 2 - it was not his best day to bring up the vasectomy , and 3 - life after trying to have kids is looking pretty good! Truth is, we'd do anything to get them here, but I've started looking forward to just enjoying raising my kids, not trying to have them. I know that I appreciate things more from what we went through, but I'm ready for the next chapter. I can't imagine life without medication, birth control, planning when it's safe for us to try, and keeping track of it all. That's probably another post.
Keep baking that kiddo!