I'm glad they've got a schedule for your labs, and I'm very confused that they haven't been dipping - I think they dipped every time I went to the bathroom when I was in the hospital. On the other hand, our experts have been clear that proteinuria isn't a deciding factor in delivery,http://www.preeclampsia.org/forum/viewt ... ry#p139173
and they're watching you closely in every other way.
I've heard docs tell women that another day pregnant can save three days in the NICU, so that's another reason for the balancing act, even while your bp is going higher. In your shoes I'd ask what they'd consider reasons for delivery in your specific case. Here's an old post where I lit-searched a little too much about general PE delivery criteria http://www.preeclampsia.org/forum/viewt ... ia#p138938
I remember being miserable in the hospital in my first pregnancy, are you finding anything enjoyable to pass the time?