I chickened out of my peri appointment

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I chickened out of my peri appointment

Postby rosalinda » Wed Oct 17, 2012 05:23 pm

I finally convinced my husband to give it one last try for a sibling for my son. We are planning on TTC in August '13. I had set up our pre-conception appointment with my perinatologist this coming Monday. This week I started to panic, worrying about what she might say that she didn't already say last year (that if I suffered another "catastrophic" abruption, I could die)---so I cancelled the appointment.

I know I still have time to see her before August, and at one point I will---but for now I'm just too terrified, I'm somewhat in denial and I just needed to vent.



Thanks for reading.
-Elissa, January 2007: stillborn at 25 weeks, severe PE, IUGR, reverse-end diastolic flow
- Chronic hypertension as of November 2007
-missed miscarriage Feb 2009
- Ismael Jaden, June 2010, 36 wks, oligohydramnios & rising BP's, my wonderful little man & the love of my life
- Janelle, September 2011, 24wks, 3days. complete placental abruption & DIC, stillborn
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Re: I chickened out of my peri appointment

Postby sam10 » Wed Oct 17, 2012 05:29 pm

I understand very much that the prospect of hearing bad news would throw you into a panic. You still have time. Sending you hugs
~Julija (40)
MC 3/2009 and 3/2011
Henry (1/1/2010-1/7/2010) - forever loved and missed; severe PE with Hellp; partial placental abruption, classical c-section at 25.6 weeks
Matilda (Nov. 2012, born at 35.4 weeks) - severe PE


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Re: I chickened out of my peri appointment

Postby princess purr » Thu Oct 18, 2012 04:05 pm

I was scared to go to the peri to... but I'm really happy I went. Going to the peri doesn't mean you have to try right away, and more then likly they are going to want to run a bunch of test that are going to take some time. Going to the peri can also but your mind at ease. Good luck :-)
Val (34) & Carlos (32)
Married: April 29th 2011
Veronica Rosina, 11/25/2004-11/27/2004
Born at 26.5 weeks (1 lb 4oz, 14 inches) because of severe preeclampsia (doc says I was on my way to HELLP but not there yet)
Nicholas Robert, 11/22/2013 7 lb 7oz 19.5 inches, born at 36 weeks (due to previous classical c-section) PE FREE!!!!!!
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Re: I chickened out of my peri appointment

Postby jules2 » Mon Oct 29, 2012 09:18 am

You have been through so much I am not surprised if you are not ready yet. You still have plenty of time to think about this. Maybe you just need to put this to one side for now and focus on enjoying your son for a bit longer. I wish I could say something more helpful .. good luck whatever you do.
May 2009 - Alice stillborn at 26 weeks due to severe PE and HELLP post-partum

2 early miscarriages

And then 4th pregnancy baby girl due 29th December 2010! Born safely after totally normal pregnancy on 17th December.
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