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My baby should be 8 today :-(

Postby princess purr » Sun Nov 25, 2012 12:38 am

by princess purr (1092 Posts), Sun Nov 25, 2012 12:38 am

I can not believe I should have a little 8 year old girl.. wow, what would I be buying her for christmas? What would she like? So many questions that will never be answered. 8 years, and it still hurts... I still ask myself what if... How different life would be...
Val (34) & Carlos (32)
Married: April 29th 2011
Veronica Rosina, 11/25/2004-11/27/2004
Born at 26.5 weeks (1 lb 4oz, 14 inches) because of severe preeclampsia (doc says I was on my way to HELLP but not there yet)
Nicholas Robert, 11/22/2013 7 lb 7oz 19.5 inches, born at 36 weeks (due to previous classical c-section) PE FREE!!!!!!
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Re: My baby should be 8 today :-(

Postby MomTimesThree » Mon Nov 26, 2012 00:44 am

by MomTimesThree (559 Posts), Mon Nov 26, 2012 00:44 am

A very peaceful birthday wish to your sweet lil' girl. Wow, eight years. Whomever said time heals all wounds I don't think ever considered the hurt of a momma without her child in her arms. My thoughts are with you and I wish you moments of peace.

Lauren
2008-Our Baby Girl, PTL born too early at 30w6d, Fought so hard... Forever Loved & Missed
2010- Lil' Bro, Pre-E at 29 weeks... Induced at 36w6d, Born 37w
2012- Lil' Sis, Super-imposed pre-e at 25 weeks, PTL & GD at 35 weeks, Evicted 36w
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Re: My baby should be 8 today :-(

Postby cmccaffrey » Mon Nov 26, 2012 02:37 am

by cmccaffrey (458 Posts), Mon Nov 26, 2012 02:37 am

Hugs to you, Val, on this very special and difficult day. <3
Christa (25) & J (26)
Mommy to:
Mason born 10.11.10 @ 30+3 wks due to Severe Pre-E. Only lived 2.5 days
Noah born 2.1.12 @ 38 weeks thanks to lots of doctors visits, LDA, Lovenox and no preeclampsia!

learn more about our story... http://tinyurl.com/7a979vy
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Re: My baby should be 8 today :-(

Postby holly3372@msn.com » Mon Nov 26, 2012 09:45 am

by holly3372@msn.com (478 Posts), Mon Nov 26, 2012 09:45 am

Thinking of you and your baby girl, although I know you know I think of you alot. I know how very hard it is when special days come especially birthdays because for us it wasnt what we ever expected their birthdays to be like. Alot of memories of the day she was born plus the grief that years later it hurts so much her not being here. I send you lots of love Val xoxo
Benjamin Spider Reeves born 4-28-2010( 1lb 6oz 26 weeks to severe pre-e and Iugr) we lost you after 4 long months in the NICU. You fought so hard,and were so brave.Our first baby .We miss you everyday and love you forever xo

Expecting ,dreaming, and hoping for our baby Girl sometime in January 2013
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Re: My baby should be 8 today :-(

Postby kerisue » Tue Nov 27, 2012 02:53 pm

by kerisue (623 Posts), Tue Nov 27, 2012 02:53 pm

I ask myself those same questions, Val. Thinking of you and little Veronica.
Mama to Millie
born June 2010 @ 24 wks. gestation due to my severe PE and CHF
lived 25 days, loved and missed
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Re: My baby should be 8 today :-(

Postby afaiz » Wed Nov 28, 2012 12:13 am

by afaiz (41 Posts), Wed Nov 28, 2012 12:13 am

Hi Val,

Sorry for your loss, I guess it's true that it never stops hurting and we just get used to living with the pain. Wishing your sweet daughter a happy birthday in heaven. I hope out feeling better! :-)


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Re: My baby should be 8 today :-(

Postby rosemary » Thu Nov 29, 2012 07:39 pm

by rosemary (2360 Posts), Thu Nov 29, 2012 07:39 pm

Thinking of you Val. Many, many hugs to you.
Rosemary - 47 - Central, PA
Momma to Kayleigh 8/25/88 - 36 weeks
Elliott 8/29/04 - lost at 20 weeks due to severe PE/HELLP
Proud Grandma to Max Allen 10/19/10.
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