I can only imagine how frustrating it must be. With your history they should be the ones who feel silly for not taking you seriously and monitoring you and baby more closely.
I would for sure ask about an MFM consult.. even this late in the game and you can also put her on the spot... "So I am planning my work schedule/childcare etc for delivery, we discussed inducing at 37 weeks, that's Tuesday (for example)... what's the plan? What time should I check in at the hospital."
Your peace of mind is always worth it. In a few days/weeks she'll never remember you making her feel uncomfortable, but you'll always remember. So do what you have to do to make this journey easiest for you.
Keep posted as you're able.
2008-Our Baby Girl, PTL born too early at 30w6d, Fought so hard... Forever Loved & Missed
2010- Lil' Bro, Pre-E at 29 weeks... Induced at 36w6d, Born 37w
2012- Lil' Sis, Super-imposed pre-e at 25 weeks, PTL & GD at 35 weeks, Evicted 36w