I think it's the Foundation policy to not recommend any specific peri's for liability purposes, so even if anyone will recommend a doctor, it will be deleted from the Forum message.
However, I live in NJ too and I find it very hard to find one as well. I know of a few good ones, but they are really busy and not willing to see you unless you are pregnant and high risk...
We should get together and start a NJ chapter, and then we can share doctor names without involving the Foundation.
If you registered with the Foundation, you will soon receive updates on the NJ Chapter meetings.
You can also email me anytime: firstname.lastname@example.org
Angel stillborn 24w p-e 2/17/03