I am so sorry to hear this news, I was realy hoping there would be a better outcome.
I definitely think it a good idea to send this website along. Your family friend is going to have a lot of questions why this happened to her and she will probably be scared to death to get PG again for fear of it happening all over. This is a good support network for that.
Also, I read a book while my son was in the NICU that really helped. It was called "When Bad Things Happen to Good People" You might want to mention to someone closer to this family friend to give it to her as a gift.
DH, John (35)
Max, 1/20/03, 25 wks, 534g. (IUGR), severe PE