On July 21, 1999, I went to a regular doctors appointment, where they
discovered the protein in my urine was unusually high. The doctor told me
at
the time that since this was the only unusual symptom of anything (he didn't
mention preeclampsia at the time) they would take some tests and get back to
me. If they didn't get back to me within one week they wanted me to call
them. I was oblivious to any condition it could have been and that I would
have virtually every symptom there is for preeclampsia.
On July 27, 1999, (exactly one day before I was going to call the doctor for
an answer) I woke up at four in the morning with a killer migraine. I took
some Tylenol and hoped it would go away. I was due to baby-sit my little
brother (3) and sister (6 mo.) in three hours and my head hurt so bad I
didn't think I could do it. My headache was so sensitive I couldn't bear
the
sound of my three-year-old brother's feet on the hard wood floor. I called
the doctor's office, and was told to take Tylenol and if it persisted by the
end of the day, call back. I should mention at this time that my legs and
feet had been swollen for at least a week maybe two, which I thought was
common, but not when the swelling would not subside overnight or when I
raised my feet.
Around 11:30 a.m. after unsuccessfully attempting sleep, I got up to go to
the bathroom and realized I couldn't see anything. I called the doctor
again, where they said a nurse would return the call. Since I was so easily
dismissed, I figured I was overreacting. One hour went by, my vision was so
blurry. I called back. When told the nurse was just starting her callbacks
it would be another hour, I insisted it was an emergency. I knew something
was not right, although I could feel my baby kicking all morning. Finally,
the doctor I had previously seen got on the phone and told me to immediately
come into labor and delivery. Since I could not see, my mother had to come
home from work to take me (My baby's father was out of town, not expecting
the arrival of his firstborn so soon).
When my mom arrived, we left immediately. The hospital was thirty minutes
away. Halfway there, I felt nauseous. My mom not wanting to stop handed me
a towel to vomit in. I had also developed this terrible pain in my upper
abdomen. It was this dull, aching. That seemed to be the worst part to
deal
with. When we arrived at the hospital, a wave of nurses hit me. They were
introducing themselves and giving me instructions, I was confused, I thought
they just wanted to take a couple of tests.
I had gained ten pounds since my doctors visit six days prior. They
instructed me to pee in a cup, which I was unable to do. I was put on
Magnesium Sulfate (I hope that's right), I was given a steroid shot which I
was told to help my baby's lungs develop faster. They had taken my blood
pressure, which was 200/130. The doctor came in and explained I had a
condition called preeclampsia. That my body was basically shutting down and
that is why I could not pee in the cup. That most women that developed this
condition only develop a few symptoms before they can do something about it.
His exact words, "Then there are those few women that are like WHOA! That's
you." So they had to run some more tests, but if I "could make it" (scary
thought to me) they were going to run me to Sacramento two hours away since
it has the best NICU around. All I wanted the whole time was some water,
but
they wouldn't give me any just in case they had to deliver soon.
They were able to transport me to Sutter. When I arrived, they immediately
prepared me for a cesarean section. My son, Joshua Tate Ramirez Ratliff,
was
born at 8:26 p.m. on July 27, 1999, at 3 pounds, 2 ounces and 16 3/4 inches
long. He was born at 30 weeks and one day. He had to stay in the hospital
34 days and was released to come home the day he turned four pounds. He was
lucky enough to not have any real serious problems, he was on a ventilator
three days, and light air for thirteen more days. They basically said he
needed to gain weight and be able to maintain his body temperature.
I had to stay in the hospital for four days, when I was released, they
checked my blood pressure which was 155/90. I thought this was high, but
the
nurse said, "It's nothing to worry about." So when I came back two months
later, the doctor who delivered my son was appalled that they released me
like that, and my blood pressure was still high that day. I had to take
more
medication and it is finally normal.
This is something that I would have never anticipated would happen to me. I
was in shock most of that day. I did not once think that day anything bad
was going to happen and I remember thinking when I first saw my son (a
little
purple blur) how beautiful he was, and I was never once worried about losing
him (although all of my family was). Now when I look at pictures and think
about it, I am sad at the way my son had to start out, yet I am thankful
that
he is alive and healthy today, (although he is almost two and barely twenty
pounds), and I am so thankful for having survived such a life-threatening
condition.
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