what's going on???

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Re : what's going on???

Postby annoited » Fri Apr 03, 638296 6:55 am

Happy birthday to your lovely angels... sorry your mom didn't mention it. maybe she didn't want to upset you.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby frumiousb » Sat Mar 21, 638296 10:50 am

Jana,

Sorry that this happened. I'm thinking about your girls. I find that mostly people don't know what to say.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby 4evermyangel » Sat Mar 21, 638296 10:17 am

I saw this saying somewhere "mentioning my childs name might bring a tear to my eye, but know that it also brings a smile to my heart"

I wish I could wear a sign ever day with this on, I agree people just don't get it.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby rosemary » Thu Mar 12, 638296 6:47 am

Jana...I am so sorry. I have a feeling when they realize it, you will have apologies coming your way. Your three beautiful girls are in my thoughts...sending you hugs.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby katevans » Thu Mar 12, 638296 4:42 am

Jana,
Happy Birthday little ladies!!! The same thing has happened to me 2 years in a row now. Why can't our families understand that we enjoy talking about children and remember the short time that we had to spend with them.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby neslo » Thu Mar 12, 638296 2:45 am

Jana - (((HUGS))) I'm so sorry that your family wasn't there for you on such a hard day. Maybe your mom was just worried about how you would react. Can you mention to your mom how much that hurt you? It might make you feel better and help her understand things too.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby for faith » Thu Mar 12, 638296 1:58 am

Jana - Thinking of you and your precious daughters, many hugs. I have just come to expect that now (4yrs for me this past Jan)......so know there are others. I think most just don't get it and/or it is just too hard to think about. Know that we are thinking of your sweet girls.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby 4evermyangel » Wed Mar 11, 638296 12:25 pm

first BIG HUGS to you, second HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your girls! It really hurts when it seems like everyone else has moved on and forgotten about the things that are sooooooo important to us. I'd like to think that all of our angels got to have a great big birthday party yesterday!

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Re : what's going on???

Postby jsu_work » Wed Mar 11, 638296 12:10 pm

hugs
It is difficult.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby joker » Wed Mar 11, 638296 6:50 am

Oh Jana, I am sorry. It is soooo hard when people don't acknowledge our babies. Big hugs to you!


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