what's going on???

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Postby annes » Wed Mar 11, 638296 5:42 am

Jana, I am so sorry, I don't know what to say. Maybe your mom felt like it would be easier for you if no one mentioned it? I think my dh's family would love it if Griffin's name were never mentioned again, because it is just too hard, and they don't know what to say or do with big emotions. HUGS and happy b-day to the girls.

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Re : what's going on???

Postby biogal » Wed Mar 11, 638296 12:33 am

Oh Jana, I am so terribly sorry. I am totally appalled for you ... to me it's unacceptable for your family and friends not to remember the girls' birthday. I can understand why you are so hurt as I would be hurt too! :( I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and your three beautiful little girls today. ((HUGS))

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Re : what's going on???

Postby aundapenner » Wed Mar 11, 638296 12:32 am


I don't understand their silence either. And I'm so so sorry for your loss.


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Re : what's going on???

Postby darateacher » Tue Mar 10, 638296 10:45 pm

Jana- I'm sorry, too. Aaron's playing with your girls. I just know it! :-)

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Re : what's going on???

Postby wrennie » Tue Mar 10, 638296 9:47 pm

Jana, i am sorry. I am thinking of you and your little angels and hope they are playing happily with mine. hugs to you!!

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what's going on???

Postby jana m » Tue Mar 10, 638296 9:45 pm

My girls would have been two yesterday. The only person in our family to acknowledge the day was my MIL. I am shocked and surprised, but most of all hurt. My parents especially, have been so supportive and I can't believe they didn't even call. My mom called here this morning and didn't say one word about it. I felt too upset to even say anything. I just can't understand what happened.

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