Hello Kelsangel and welcome! I'm so glad you found us and so sorry you had to.
I'm not sure, you might be right that you are the earliest HELLP case here, such a sad distinction. I've read of women getting sick as early as 15 weeks, but it is exceedingly rare. I'm so sorry again that you were one of those rare cases. Have you been able to talk to a high-risk consultant since your HELLP experience and your baby's death? Our experts tell us that women who get sick so extremely early might have underlying predispositions that might contribute to a difficult pregnancy. It could also be just very bad luck, but maybe the doctors could find something that could be treated before you try to get pregnant again. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17666652http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17576561
It sounds like you've done amazing work raising awareness! I saw that you have some connection with APEC in the UK. I wonder if you've also seen the PRECOG guidelines http://www.apec.org.uk/precog.html
. Right now our Experts are working on similar guidelines for the US.
If you would like to coordinate fundraising or any other effort, please feel free to contact me - heather dot curtis at preeclampsia dot org or laney dot poye at preeclampsia dot org. We'd love to share our efforts!
(PS - I had to make an edit on your original post, I'll PM you in just a minute to explain a little more.)