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Volunteer Profile: Trish James

Last Updated on Tuesday, March 06, 2012

What was your experience with preeclampsia?

In my first pregnancy I wasn't worried about PE at all; everything was going smoothly until 31 weeks when, at our last childbirth class on a tour of the hospital's Labor & Delivery (L&D) ward, I started having painful contractions. We ended up calling my OB from the hospital parking lot and she told us to go back up to L&D where they hooked me up and determined - yes - these were real contractions & I was starting to dilate. Many hours of monitoring and couple shots of terbulaline later they sent me home. I ended up at my 37 week appointment, being sent over to L&D for an induction because of preeclampsia.

How aware were you about preeclampsia before/during your pregnancy?

I'd never really heard of preeclampsia before my first pregnancy. During my pregnancy as I started having high BP sometime around 34 weeks it got mentioned and I knew there were some things to watch for and to call in about. But no one ever mentioned that upper right quadrant pain was not normal.

My 2nd pregnancy was pretty uneventful, and even with mild high blood pressure, I made it to a planned induction at 38 weeks. I wasn't planning a 3rd pregnancy but a couple weeks after our 2nd daughter turned 2, we found out SURPRISE, I was pregnant! I was kind of panicked about a pregnancy starting with chronic hypertension, so I went looking for information and stumbled across the Preeclampsia Foundation forums.

Unfortunately, even on BP meds, my BP kept rising. Around 32 weeks, I started getting headaches and at 34 weeks I made my 1st trip to L&D because of it. They monitored me for a while, gave me pain medication & said it looked like things were heading downhill. It was Christmas and I desperately wanted things to be "normal" and be at home with our two other girls who were 4 and 2 so I took Darvocet to deal with the persistent headache and stayed home. In hindsight, this was a totally stupid plan!! I just thought if I could hold out until the 26th everything would be ok.

On Dec. 26, we went to my 36 week appointment and my OB took one look at me and sent me straight over to L&D. Our baby was born just after midnight early on the 27th. Her lungs were mature & she never needed any help breathing. I was discharged with really high BP (even on my BP meds) with the nurses telling me it was just because I was stressed about leaving my baby there. I ended up going back to the ER the next night with a headache worse than anything I'd had while pregnant (which I didn't think was possible!) and really high BP. We spent all night there, I got IV BP meds and morphine shots (which just took the edge off the pain) and went home in the morning with a prescription for an additional BP med. Over 4 years later, I still take a high dose of 2 BP meds. Last year I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis so it's possible that was an underlying factor in my having PE 3 times. But our 3 girls are healthy and for that I am truly grateful.

Why do you volunteer for the Preeclampsia Foundation?

I volunteer because the Forums were my lifeline for information, support and sanity during my 3rd PE pregnancy. I know how much they helped me and I see how much we help families every day.

What are your goals and dreams for your involvement with the Foundation?

We live in Oklahoma City and I am very happy that we are getting our own Promise Walk this year! We've done the walk in the Dallas-Ft. Worth area for the past 2 years and plan to do it again in May. My mom and dad donate and come to walk with us because they are so grateful to the PF for what they've done for our family. I can only hope that our fundraising efforts can find a cure.

What has been your most gratifying moment as a Foundation volunteer?

There have been several times as a forum moderator that I have checked for updates first thing in the morning, or stayed up late hoping for an update from one of our posters going through a difficult PE pregnancy. I worry about them like they are family. But it makes me realize how much good we're doing when a member says that she credits us (the forum and the Foundation) for saving her life and/or the life of her baby with the information and support we gave her.

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