I had been booked in for a water birth in the Midwife-led unit. This was my third baby, and everything was looking okay. All through the pregnancy, I wasn't diagnosed with high blood pressure. Then, about 2 weeks before I gave birth, I went to see my consultant, who advised that there was a little protein in my urine, but it was nothing to worry about. I just needed to monitor my blood pressure at home. I did this, and a few days into this, I developed a migraine that lasted three days. I told my partner, who advised that I get checked out. I was hesitant as I still wanted my water birth, and the baby wasn't due yet. After calling the hospital, they advised that I visit them to get checked over. As I had preeclampsia before in my first pregnancy, it was important to make sure that everything was okay.

However, I wasn't prepared for what I was going to hear.

"Alisha, you can't go home. You need to be induced or have a c-section. Your blood pressure is extremely high." The consultant advised with concern. She went on to state that in order for me and baby to be safe, it was best to offer a c-section. I immediately started crying. I was in the hospital on my own. My partner was looking after our two boys. I wasn't prepared for this. I wanted my water birth. Thoughts kept being thrown around in my head. Disheartened and in tears, I called my partner, who needed to get childcare as he needed to be with me since I was potentially going to have a c-section.

My baby wasn't due for two weeks and here he had to come early. I wish that it didn't happen the way that it did. But I understand that it was vital. As who knows what could have occurred. Me and the baby could have our lives threatened.

I wish to help others inform themselves of the signs of preeclampsia and how to get help if it is suspected. My choice of birth was taken away from me, but it is better to be safe than sorry.